8th month: standing on legs and the peak of separation anxiety
The eighth month often brings a new major milestone — the baby learns to stand, holding onto support. At the same time, it is the peak of anxiety due to separation from mother.
Overview
The eighth month is a time of contrasts. On one hand, your baby takes a huge step toward independence, learning to stand on their legs. On the other hand, they need your presence more than ever and may react very sharply to separation. Understanding these two parallel processes will help you support your little one at this important stage.
Baby development
The main achievement is the ability to pull up and stand on legs, holding onto furniture. Some babies start "cruising" — moving along a support. The "pincer grasp" improves — the baby learns to pick up small objects with the thumb and index finger.
Milestones
- Stands on legs near a support.
- The "pincer grasp" develops.
- Separation anxiety may appear.
- Waves "bye-bye".
- Understands simple requests.
Feeding
Encourage independence by offering your baby safe pieces of food they can eat with their hands. This is a great exercise for fine motor skills.
Sleep
Sleep regression may occur, related to mastering new skills (standing up in the crib) and separation anxiety. Be patient and consistent in your routines. We discuss this in the article "Sleep regressions".
Safety
Make sure all furniture that the baby holds onto is stable. Remove tablecloths and anything the baby could pull onto themselves. This is a critical period for home safety.
Activities
Play games that help cope with separation (for example, "peek-a-boo"). Offer toys that require finger manipulation (buttons, wheels).